Spotting the difference between a competitor and an achiever


Dr. Mara Klemich – Founder & Consulting Psychologist

What drives successful people? All too often we're conditioned to believe it's their competitive nature - their innate need to rise above the rest - that pushes them forward. But there's a big difference between competing and achieving. And when we navigate the world by measuring ourselves against others, we limit how far we can go.

Whether we find our self worth by looking inward or outward plays a big role in determining our behaviours. Here, Mara Klemich unpacks these motivations and their manifestations. 

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